The Value of Friendship

August 24, 2023

Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend. Proverbs 27:17

It’s not good to be alone. God has made you to be social. Interaction with others is important. Life without friends is sad, dull, and inactive. The Bible provides several examples of close friends who helped each other out; David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, Paul and Timothy. Their friendships sharpened them as iron sharpeneth iron.

Iron is used to sharpen instruments made for cutting, such as knives and swords. Over time, and due to use, misuse, or neglect, cutting tools can become dull and blunt. When this happens they lose their edge limiting their effectiveness. They need to be sharpened. Through a slow process that requires patience and much effort, the iron instrument is rubbed against a file or another iron object until sharpened. Sharpening removes rust and other pollutants from the metal, then polishes the iron so that it shines. A sharp edge is produced increasing the power and effectiveness of the instrument. A sharpened knife or sword is made useful and prepared for service.

Like iron, it’s possible for your mind and heart to become blunt, limiting your knowledge, distorting your morals, and hurting your character. A good friend will sharpen your countenance through conversation and fellowship. Their comfort and advice will encourage you when weary and strengthen you when weak so that you will effectively live for God. This will affect your attitude and will probably be noticed in your countenance, which might beam with joy or sparkle with hope. Choice words from a friend can turn your day around. So be grateful for your friends and remember, one good friend is better than many acquaintances.

Strive to be friendly. In your multiple relationships, as a spouse, parent, child, neighbor, co-worker, etc., you have the opportunity to encourage others in the Lord. Take the time to converse with others, so they might be sharpened. This can be accomplished through talking, praying together, and studying the Bible with each other. You have a multitude of resources at your disposal. You can talk in person, over the phone, through texting, by email or even through an old fashioned letter sent through the postal service. Just make the effort, knowing your words may be the difference between a good day or bad day. With good conversation you can comfort a discouraged soul or open a mind and heart to truth, so that God is glorified.

Thank the Lord for faithful friends and do your best to be one. 

Thanks for reading…

Pastor Ramirez